I Don’t Think Children Need Perfect Characters. I Think They Need Honest Ones.

One thing I’ve noticed about children is that they connect very quickly to emotional honesty.

Not perfection.
Not flawless heroes.
Not characters who are brave every second of every day.

Children tend to trust characters who feel real.

Characters who get scared sometimes.
Who make mistakes.
Who feel unsure of themselves.
Who need time to grow.

And honestly, I think that matters more than we realise.

Because childhood itself can feel confusing sometimes.

Children are constantly trying to understand themselves while also trying to understand the world around them. Friendships change. Confidence shifts. Emotions become bigger and more complicated as they grow.

Some children handle that loudly.

Others carry it quietly.

I think those quieter children are often the ones who connect most deeply to stories.

Not because they want to escape reality completely, but because stories help them process reality safely.

A child may not know how to explain:
“I feel overwhelmed.”
“I don’t feel confident.”
“I’m scared of getting things wrong.”

But they might recognise those feelings immediately inside a character.

And when they do, they stop feeling quite so alone.

That’s something I thought about a lot while writing The Adventures of Morish.

I never wanted Morish to feel emotionally unreachable.

She gets frightened.
She hesitates.
She questions herself.
She doesn’t instantly know how to solve every problem.

But slowly, through friendship, resilience, and experience, she learns how to keep moving forward even when she feels uncertain.

To me, that feels much closer to real courage.

Because real courage usually happens quietly.

It happens when children try again after doubting themselves.
When they walk into unfamiliar situations feeling nervous.
When they keep going despite fear.

I think many parents and educational professionals are recognising how emotionally overwhelmed some children are becoming lately.

Children are growing up surrounded by constant stimulation, pressure, comparison, and noise. Sometimes even very capable children begin quietly losing confidence in themselves underneath all of that.

That’s why stories still matter so deeply.

Not simply because reading supports literacy, although it absolutely does.

Stories also support emotional growth.

They help children:

• develop empathy
• build resilience
• process emotions
• feel understood
• imagine hope during difficult moments

And sometimes the right story reaches a child in ways adults cannot immediately reach through conversation alone.

I think that’s part of the quiet power of children’s literature.

A story can sit beside a child emotionally without demanding anything from them.

It simply says:
“You’re not the only one who feels this way.”

And honestly, I think many children need that reassurance more than ever right now.

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I’m grateful to share this little world of stories with people who understand how meaningful books can become in a child’s life.

Elorine